We recently had the chance to connect with TJ Wethington and have shared our conversation below.
Good morning TJ, we’re so happy to have you here with us and we’d love to explore your story and how you think about life and legacy and so much more. So let’s start with a question we often ask: What makes you lose track of time—and find yourself again?
Without question, it’s music. When I’m playing with my band, it’s like stepping into a time warp. Hours disappear in what feels like minutes! There’s just something about the creative energy, the camaraderie, and the shared momentum with my good friends that’s both grounding and rejuvenating. It keeps me young and connected to who I am at my core. Not to mention it’s one of the best ways to decompress and let the stresses of everyday life just melt away. Music has shaped my identity for as long as I can remember. I honestly don’t know who I’d be without it.
Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
I’m TJ Wethington and I consider myself an entrepreneur and musician. My day job consists of serving as Director of Business Development at IDAX Data Solutions. I wear quite a few hats, but they all connect through a common thread. Building things that matter! Whether that’s a company, a community, or a song.
At IDAX, we specialize in traffic data collection. It might sound niche, but what we do directly shapes how cities grow, how people move, and how infrastructure decisions get made. We’re a team of data nerds with a serious passion for tech and service. We pride ourselves on turning complex mobility questions into clear, actionable insights that improve our communities. Outside of IDAX, I’m the co-founder of The WICK, short for Wealth In Community Knowledge, a space rooted in the idea that community is our greatest resource. We’re in the process of expanding into a new physical location in Twin Lakes, Colorado, that will serve as both a retreat and creative space to foster connection, inspiration, and learning. It’s a personal dream in the making!
And through it all, music remains a constant. I’ve played in bands for most of my life, and I still perform and write with my band Theoretic. Whether I’m on a job site, a stage, or a mountain trail, I’m always chasing purpose and trying to leave things better than I found them.
Amazing, so let’s take a moment to go back in time. What relationship most shaped how you see yourself?
No offense to any friends or family but that honor goes to my grandfather, George Brown. He wasn’t just a grandfather, he was a mentor, a friend, and one of the kindest, most grounded people I’ve ever known. We had a bond that went beyond family. Built on card games, long days out on the lake fishing, and a deep mutual respect. He had this quiet but unwavering way of championing everything I did, and that support planted the seeds of confidence and community-mindedness that still drive me today.
Gramps had a gift for making people feel seen and supported. His belief in me helped shape the way I show up in the world, with purpose, with compassion, and with an appreciation for the people around me. (And if my mom reads this, don’t worry, you’re still in the top tier too!)
If you could say one kind thing to your younger self, what would it be?
“Don’t worry about a thing, ’cause every little thing is gonna be alright.” Truer words have never been spoken. If I could go back, I’d tell my younger self to stop stressing over the small stuff and just trust the process. Life has a way of working out, especially when you keep showing up with heart, grit, and integrity. Things might not always go as planned, but they often go better than expected.
I think our readers would appreciate hearing more about your values and what you think matters in life and career, etc. So our next question is along those lines. Is the public version of you the real you?
Oh, 100%. What you see is exactly what you get. Maybe a little too much sometimes. I’ve always had what people call the “gift of gab.” I approach life with the same energy whether I’m in a room full of clients, on stage, or just catching up with friends.
But beneath all that energy is someone who genuinely cares. I’ve definitely had moments where I’ve wondered, “Am I coming off too polished? Too extra?” But the truth is, that energy isn’t performative, it’s just how I’m wired. I love connecting with people, lifting the vibe, and being fully present. I’d rather be a little too much than not enough and honestly, the version of me you see in public is the same one you’d get if we were sitting on a porch, talking about life over coffee.
Thank you so much for all of your openness so far. Maybe we can close with a future oriented question. If you knew you had 10 years left, what would you stop doing immediately?
Working! Life is about experiences. The people we meet, the places we go, and the moments that change us. If I knew I had only ten years left, I’d trade deadlines for passports and spend every minute exploring this world (and maybe even beyond, if we’ve figured out interstellar travel by then). That deep curiosity, that drive to explore the unknown, is one of the reasons I’ve always been drawn to Star Trek. The idea that there’s always something new to discover, something bigger than us out there, really resonates with me. So yeah, I’d pack a bag, grab the people I love, and start chasing every horizon I could find.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://thewickdenver.org
- Instagram: @adventure_teej
- Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tj-wethington/
- Youtube: @theoretic8423
- Other: https://open.spotify.com/artist/6VdiK7zyFaOsxzdJ6Cym8p?si=W10_E99tS9uLqxKb0hh8AA
Image Credits
Katie Langley Photography
Stephanie Wethington
