Conversations with Kassandra Brown

Today we’d like to introduce you to Kassandra Brown

Hi Kassandra, can you start by introducing yourself? We’d love to learn more about how you got to where you are today?
I started as a chemical engineer with a vision to remediate toxic waste and create sustainable human presence on our planet. As I worked towards that goal, I realized that we are all most likely to be toxic – in words and deeds – when we are lonely and dealing with unresolved trauma. I choose to become a Cuddlist platonic touch therapist and relationship coach so that I could work with people on feeling safe and loved in their own skin, between their own ears, and in their close relationships.

I’m sure it wasn’t obstacle-free, but would you say the journey has been fairly smooth so far?
As you can imagine, the journey from chemical engineer to Cuddlist is not exactly well-paved. There have been many bumps along the way including going from being salaried to having an entrepreneurs unreliable income. Being able to say with confidence that I cuddle people for a living has taken some time, too. I love the freedom and the sense of purpose and contribution of my chosen path. I know all the bumps were worth it and have made me the compassionate and resilient practitioner I am today.

As you know, we’re big fans of you and your work. For our readers who might not be as familiar what can you tell them about what you do?
I empower people to trust their bodies and trust being close to another body while also including the mind and emotions. When all is going well, I’d say we also include the spirit. I specialize in helping people who crave more connection but are blocked for some reason. Maybe they experienced trauma like childhood abuse or neglect or sexual assault as an adult. Maybe they are neurodiverse and have a hard time reading social cues. Maybe they are shy. There are many reasons why someone finds themselves longing for contact and connection while also fearing it or having no idea how to create it. I help people bridge from where they are to where they want to be. My main modality is cuddling and it’s such delightful, cozy personal growth work that most people enjoy the journey as well as the destination. One of the things that sets this work apart is that it is physical and intimate (unlike talk therapy) while also being strictly platonic (unlike sex work) and being client lead (unlike most massages). It’s a very unique practice that is empowering and healing for many clients.

We love surprises, fun facts and unexpected stories. Is there something you can share that might surprise us?
I’ve found relationships so challenging. My whole life I’ve felt like I never quite belonged. I longed for a sense of inclusion – a way to be close to people while still having my own sense of self and freedom. What I’ve discovered with cuddle work about connection, relaxation, and trust while also learning how to set and keep clear and authentic boundaries has changed my life as well as my clients lives.

Pricing:

• $225 for 90 minutes
• sliding scale available

Contact Info:

• Website: https://www.kassandrabrown.org/
• Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@KassandraBrown3