Hidden Gems: Meet Cindy Sullivan of Mile High Divorce Consulting & Recovery

Today we’d like to introduce you to Cindy Sullivan.

Hi Cindy, it’s an honor to have you on the platform. Thanks for taking the time to share your story with us – to start maybe you can share some of your backstory with our readers?
My story didn’t start with a business plan. It started with a gap I noticed during a major life transition. After my own divorce, I realized how much support people don’t have when navigating this process. There are lawyers and therapists, but no one in the middle: no one to help manage the logistics, emotions, and the heavy weight of dismantling a family system and navigating the far-reaching impact divorce has on individuals, children, and family dynamics.

I saw the need because I lived it. But more importantly, I saw the opportunity to make something better for others.

Patrick Shaffer, my brother, is the founder of The Sage Collaborative, a leading behavioral health consulting practice for families facing mental health and substance use challenges. His 16 years of sobriety shaped not only his business, but also my perspective. Seeing him transform adversity into purpose inspired me to recognize that my own story held value, that I could harness it to help others reclaim their voice and stability during divorce.

My background is in business, which gave me the confidence to structure what I do. This work brings together everything I know: systems, strategy, emotional insight, and advocacy. But it’s my personal experience that allows me to truly connect with clients in a way that goes beyond structure—helping them feel heard, supported, and empowered during divorce.

That’s how Mile High Divorce Consulting began: quietly and organically. I’ve never advertised for new clients. Every client has come through word-of-mouth referrals from One Mom’s Battle, attorneys, therapists, and past clients who trusted me to show up with both empathy and structure. This work is built on one mission: to help people feel heard, grounded, and capable during one of the hardest times of their lives.

At the core of my work is one belief: divorce does not define you. It’s something that may shape a chapter of your life, but it does not define the whole story. And if you allow it, it can become the starting point for something even better. I’m also a mom—first and always. My children’s resilience inspires me daily and reminds me why I do this work. And in one of life’s most unexpected gifts, I met Andrew after my divorce. He’s not only an incredible partner to me, but also a steady, loving presence in my children’s lives. We’re looking forward to celebrating our upcoming wedding as we continue building this new chapter together.

Alright, so let’s dig a little deeper into the story – has it been an easy path overall and if not, what were the challenges you’ve had to overcome?
The road wasn’t without its challenges. In the beginning, it was hard and honestly a little scary. There’s a real vulnerability in putting yourself out there and wondering if you’ll fail. Starting a business in an undefined space meant I had to constantly explain what I do and why it matters. I wasn’t offering legal advice or therapy, but I was doing something that bridges the gap: helping people manage the emotional chaos and the logistical details so they could make empowered decisions.

When the work started to resonate with others, and people were seeking me out because they needed support, I knew I was on the right path. However, my newfound purpose did not come without its challenges.

One of the biggest challenges has been emotional—holding space for people at their most vulnerable, while still maintaining my own boundaries. You can’t do this work without compassion, but you also can’t absorb the full weight of everyone else’s pain. A significant part of my personal growth has come from recognizing the importance of separating my journey from that of others.

I never expected the road to be smooth. I expected it to be worth it. And it has been, because every single time someone says, “You made this easier,” I know I’m doing the right work.

Great, so let’s talk business. Can you tell our readers more about what you do and what you think sets you apart from others?
At Mile High Divorce Consulting, I help people navigate divorce with more clarity and less chaos. I support clients who are overwhelmed by the emotional, legal, and logistical demands of ending a marriage. Many of them are facing high-conflict co-parents, manipulative dynamics, or years of feeling silenced and second-guessed.

I sit in the space between your attorney and your therapist. I’m not giving legal advice, and I’m not providing therapy. Instead, I bridge the gap, helping clients organize their thinking, prepare for court or mediation, vet and select the right legal team, and communicate more effectively. I’m also there to break down complicated processes into manageable steps, ensure nothing gets overlooked, and act as a sounding board when the process becomes emotionally and logistically overwhelming.

Attorneys focus on the law, and therapists focus on healing. My role is to bring those worlds together with practical strategy and emotional support, so my clients don’t feel like they’re navigating the most overwhelming experience of their lives alone. Whether it’s drafting timelines, preparing questions for attorneys, or rehearsing how to respond to a difficult co-parent email, I give clients the tools to show up informed and confident.

I’m nationally certified through Tina Swithin’s High Conflict Divorce Coach Certification Program. Tina is the founder of One Mom’s Battle, a leading resource for high-conflict divorce. I also specialize in coercive control trauma, which I studied under Dr. Christine Cocchiola. That training gave me the tools to support clients coming out of psychologically abusive relationships where traditional resources often fall short. These are the kinds of divorces where the process can become especially complex and emotionally charged, and my role is to help my client stay emotionally steady and strategic.

What sets Mile High Divorce Consulting apart is the combination of strategy, emotional insight, and advocacy. Divorce consulting is still a new field, and I’ve built my business entirely through trust and referrals. That’s what I’m most proud of brand-wise: the fact that people recommend me because they’ve experienced the value of having a trusted guide who brings both structure and compassion to an otherwise overwhelming process.

Are there any important lessons you’ve learned that you can share with us?
The most important lesson I’ve learned is that validation matters. Recognizing and honoring the way the divorce process impacts someone emotionally can be just as critical as navigating the legal steps. Divorce isn’t just paperwork. It’s an unraveling of identity, family dynamics, and what once was the vision of your future. Before strategy or checklists, people need to hear: You’re not broken, you’re not powerless, and you’re not alone.

I’ve also learned the power of trusting myself. For a long time, I thought I needed someone else’s permission to build something meaningful. What I’ve discovered is that my experience and empathy are not just qualities, they’re tools that allow me to guide others through one of the hardest chapters of their lives.

And finally, I’ve learned that purpose can grow out of pain. What feels like the end can also be the beginning—an opportunity to rebuild yourself with more clarity, courage, and intention than you had before.

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Contact Info:

• Website: https://www.milehighdivorceconsulting.com
• Instagram: Phone # 303-982-1212
• Other: email: milehighdivorceconsulting@gmail.com