Today we’d like to introduce you to Maluna Dean.
Hi Maluna, it’s an honor to have you on the platform. Thanks for taking the time to share your story with us – to start maybe you can share some of your backstory with our readers?
Four years ago, at age 42, I wanted to figure out why my relationships hadn’t worked out. I had been married at 19 and divorced by 26. After that I had several long term relationships. All of them started out wonderful, then over time became riddled with conflict and eventually heartbreak. I grew up with a psychotherapist mother and step mother, so I had a decent grasp on popular relational psychology and communication skills from a young age. However, something was missing that I couldn’t put my finger on. For decades I thought my partners and I were doing everything “right” according to modern relationship advice. So I set out on a quest to figure out the missing puzzle piece that would create an amazing, lasting relationship. I read countless relationship books. They helped somewhat, however it wasn’t until I found the modern polarity movement that everything clicked into place. It wasn’t like a light bulb going off, it was a massive stadium light. Growing up, I was indoctrinated into the feminist movement, which had a great and noble beginning. But over time it turned into man-hating and man-shaming. Men were afraid to assert healthy masculine traits and women became more critical, judgemental and controlling. Women became more masculine and men became more feminine. But this dynamic breeds resentment on both sides. And it doesn’t create lasting physical or emotional attraction. I learned that masculinity is actually beautiful, that true masculinity is protective, caring, and devoted. And true femininity is not passive or weak, it is highly expressive, intuitive, and authentic. I started implementing the polarity teachings in my own life and experienced incredible results. I learned feminine communication, which is communicating in a way that is open, honest, authentic, vulnerable, and respectful. It changed my entire life. The way people responded to me was incredibly positive and created productive communication. I could share my heart in a way where instead of men putting up walls and withdrawing, it made them want to lean in, hold space for my feelings and care for me deeply. It also made them self-motivated to change their behavior, if they were doing something that hurt me. The more I got into my feminine energy, the more difficult I found it was to be around men who were in their feminine energy and not their masculine energy, since opposite energies attract like magnets. I learned men are afraid to assert their healthy masculinity in fear of being labeled as “toxic”. I started coaching individuals and couples in modern masculine and feminine polarity teachings. I had amazing results. I helped people transform their dating or relationship life in incredibly positive ways. I was so encouraged, that I wanted to help more people. So I wrote and published two books, one for men titled The Keys To Unlock Her Heart, Body and Soul, and one for women called Inspire His Devoted Love. I’m currently writing a wellness book for women to help them live with greater self-worth to be healthier and happier.
We all face challenges, but looking back would you describe it as a relatively smooth road?
There are two big challenges. One is that society tends to view masculinity and femininity in terms of unhealthy, outdated gender roles from the 1950’s. In those dynamics, women typically suppressed their needs and “mothered” men. The modern polarity movement is not about repressing women at all. It encourages women to share their feelings openly and honestly. And respectfully. The other challenge has been promoting my book. I’m great at the writing part, but not an expert at advertising.
Appreciate you sharing that. What else should we know about what you do?
I am a health and wellness coach as well as a dating and relationships coach. I’ve been a health and wellness coach for 25 years. Several years ago I started relationship coaching. I’m also a writer and published author of two books and about to publish my third book. I’m most proud of the people I’ve helped to have better health and relationships. Also, writing and publishing a book was no small feat. What sets me apart is my deep knowledge of health and relationship dynamics, my ability to actually use my knowledge to effectively communicate it to people in a way they can easily understand it and implement it, and truly help people.
Alright so before we go can you talk to us a bit about how people can work with you, collaborate with you or support you?
I’m doing less coaching now and focusing more on writing additional books. This enables me to help more people than working one-on-one. People can support me buy purchasing one of my books that is relevant to their needs.
Pricing:
- Relationship book for men $19.95
- Relationship book for women $17.95 (special pricing due to just being released)
Contact Info:
- Website: https://malunadean.com
- Instagram: malunadean
