Alexa Fitzpatrick shared their story and experiences with us recently and you can find our conversation below.
Good morning Alexa, it’s such a great way to kick off the day – I think our readers will love hearing your stories, experiences and about how you think about life and work. Let’s jump right in? What is something outside of work that is bringing you joy lately?
Lately, I’ve totally fallen in love with pinball. I recently joined the Belles and Chimes Denver women’s pinball league, and it has genuinely been one of the best things I’ve done for myself in a long time. It’s not just about playing the games (although hitting a multi-ball is always a thrill), I’ve learned so much from this community, both in terms of pinball skills and just from being around such passionate, supportive people. The organizers and admin are truly some of the sweetest humans, and it’s such a joy to be part of a space that’s empowering and inclusive.
Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
My name is Alexa Fitzpatrick, and I am a published author specializing in children’s literature, with two published books, Evan the EMT and Sundays with My Grandad. Through my writing, I strive to create stories that educate and inspire children, drawing heavily from my experiences and passion for emergency services and family.
In addition to my work as an author, I hold a Bachelor of Applied Science in Emergency Service Administration and currently serve as an intern in the Office of Process Improvement at the Colorado Department of Transportation. This role allows me to apply my skills in organization and leadership to improve public service systems.
Alongside writing and public service, I am also an internationally published model, which has broadened my creative perspective and strengthened my ability to connect through visual storytelling. Whether through books, professional work, or artistic collaboration, my focus remains on crafting meaningful, impactful narratives that resonate with diverse audiences.
Great, so let’s dive into your journey a bit more. What did you believe about yourself as a child that you no longer believe?
When I was a child, I believed that I had to fit neatly into a single box, and that I needed to pick one clear path or identity and stick to it, no matter what. I thought that to be successful or accepted, I had to be either creative or practical, serious or fun, but never both. I worried that mixing these parts of myself would confuse people or make me seem unfocused or less worthy. Over time, I’ve learned that embracing complexity isn’t a weakness…. it’s my greatest strength. Letting go of the need to fit into one narrow identity has opened the door for growth, creativity, and genuine connection in ways I never imagined as a kid. Now, I see that the richness of my experiences and interests is something to celebrate, not hide.
What fear has held you back the most in your life?
The fear that’s held me back the most is the fear of not being enough, of not being good enough, accomplished enough, or even worthy enough to pursue what I truly want. It’s a fear that creeps in quietly but persistently, whispering doubts that make me question my skills, my voice, and my place. That fear sometimes made me hesitate to share my writing, to fully step into leadership roles, or to take creative risks, wondering if I’d be judged or fall short. But over time, I’ve come to realize that those doubts are natural and that growth comes from leaning into discomfort rather than avoiding it. Learning to acknowledge that fear without letting it control me has been one of my biggest breakthroughs. It’s allowed me to push past perfectionism and self-doubt and instead focus on progress, connection, and authenticity. Fear might still visit, but it no longer dictates my choices.
Sure, so let’s go deeper into your values and how you think. How do you differentiate between fads and real foundational shifts?
I look for depth, sustainability, and impact over time. Fads often come with a lot of noise and excitement but lack staying power or meaningful change. They tend to focus on surface-level trends or quick fixes without addressing underlying needs or systems. Foundational shifts, on the other hand, transform how people think, work, or interact at a core level. They’re often driven by real problems, backed by evidence, and show gradual but lasting change. I also consider whether the shift invites ongoing learning and adaptation, rather than a one-time buzz. In my work, whether improving processes at CDOT or creating stories that resonate, I try to focus on changes and ideas that are rooted in authenticity and long-term value, rather than hype.
Okay, so let’s keep going with one more question that means a lot to us: What is the story you hope people tell about you when you’re gone?
I want to be remembered for the impact I made on my family, friends, and community…the ways I showed up for the people I care about and made their lives better. Beyond any professional achievements or creative work, it’s the difference I made in the everyday lives of those around me that matters most. I hope the story people tell is one of someone who listened deeply, supported wholeheartedly, and inspired others to be their best selves. Whether through small acts of kindness, meaningful conversations, or standing up for what’s right, I want my legacy to be rooted in connection and positive influence. If I can leave behind a ripple effect of love, encouragement, and strength that continues to grow within the people I care about, then I’ll know I’ve lived a life worth remembering.
Contact Info:
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexafitzpatrick/
- Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexa-fitzpatrick-120bba123/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Alexakfitzpatrick/
Image Credits
Red Shirt and Balloons: Kacie Aversa (@photos_bykacie)
Alexa with Ronald Fitzpatrick: Kylee Kent (@eyeofkyphotography)
Reading book: Rosie Compton (@rosiexcompton)
