We all think we’re being real—whether in public or in private—but the deeper challenge is questioning whether we truly know our real selves at all. In any case, even when we know ourselves we might face various pressures that push us to fit in or not cause trouble – so even the most well-intentioned person might struggle to always be 100% real in public. Sometimes the simplest questions are actually the most complex. Thankfully, we have some wonderful members of the community who offered to share their thoughts on this challenging question.
Jake Moncrieff
Mostly, yes. The public version of me is real, but it’s not the whole story. What people see is the creative side, the hustle, the humor, the brand. But the quieter parts—the dad, the human, the person figuring things out—those stay closer to home. Both versions are me, just in different settings. Read more>>
Amanda Hardin
Yes, absolutely. What people see publicly is exactly who I am. I don’t have a “stage version” and a “real-life version.” The woman who walks into a corporate event to teach awareness and mindset is the same one who rides her Harley, raises her kids, and keeps learning every day. Authenticity is the foundation of everything I do. Read more>>
Erin Jerome
I’d like to say yes, but it’s still something I’m working on. Most of the time, I’m 100% myself — loud, outgoing, always trying to crack a joke. I love making people laugh, especially when there’s tension in the room or things feel heavy. But there are moments when I feel like I’m “too much,” and I pull back or put myself in a bubble. Read more>>
Ashley DeGrush
Yes, absolutely!! I do have to censor myself sometimes in regards to saying some curse words, but I am authentic and proud of it. I want my potential patents to feel like they know me before they step into my office. I’m not trying to hide anything or be someone I am not. Read more>>
Casey Jo Klein
Yes, absolutely! I think that’s where I connect most with people, and super relatable. My clients, stylists, etc. get me as myself, in this day of age with social media it is super important for me to stay honest & relatable not only to myself but to them too. Read more>>
Flavia Elizabeth Estrada
The public version of me is a piece of the real me—but not the whole story. What you see online is my confidence, creativity, and drive, but behind that are lessons, doubts, and growth that don’t always make it to the surface. I’ve learned to show up authentically while still protecting my peace. Read more>>
